*Ignorance will not be tolerated. These are real people with real feelings. Do not post anything in this thread that is hateful / not considerate of other people's beliefs. Religion isn't allowed here, just facts and opinions. Creating this thread for us to talk about our sexualities, gender identities, and even crushes, or experiences with these topics and similar ones (No 'gay rights' talk here; nobody is superior because of their identity and should certainly not be treated as such. Gays have as much rights as anyone else. That topic is for another day). I want this to be an open and mindful place where we can share our feelings for people, whether they be sexual or romantic, and learn about things we may not have known. To start, I think we should do something like this and build conversations off of it: Gender Sexuality (and romantic orientation if necessary) Past / current crushes and relationships What you find attractive in a person Experiences with the topics in the title of this post Other things worth mentioning / stories Some things worth mentioning and rules: Hell yeah straight people / Male & Female people have a right to post here - Just because you may not be qualified or experienced in these fields does not mean you're excluded. This is an educational thread, no religious or persuasive thoughts should be forced upon anyone. Be tolerant, nobody is superior. No in-depth descriptions of sexual / NSFW experiences; keep in mind that this site has some younger kids on it. So... I'm gonna start. I'm Male. I'm an asexual, and I'm heteroromantic (Refer to definitions). I've only had crushes on a few girls, but I've only been attracted to their personalities, common interests, etc. Never any sexual attraction experienced - hence the asexuality. What I find attractive in a girl: (yes I know they sound corny; sorrynotsorry that I dont like booty or boobs) Common interests Personality / kindness Funny Is okay with the fact that I'm a total fuckin' weirdo Artistic ability Dresses well Laid back Etc. I've had some gay friends, I've come out to pretty much everyone about being an Asexual (and faced the stereotypical problems that come along with coming out), I have a transgender friend, I've never been turned on by anyone of any sex, and porn just doesn't do it for me either, and lastly- I'm perfectly happy with the way I am and I wouldnt change a thing. I'll probably share more experiences and my story if people ask later in the thread.