first of all sorry for the late response. i had a ton of assignments and 2 seminars this past week.
MaDmAn63
the confusion about your story is that it includes a lot of unnecessary information and its not very believable but i will just consider it true because there's definitely a huge chance that its true. and i didnt make this thread to doubt people's stories.
alot of teenagers (including me a few years ago) have this issue of not having a goal or not knowing why they live and they are extremely vulnerable. we as humans need an objective to live for, a belief to stand by and strive for. you sir have had an unfortunate life. but quite rewarding. its complicated for you i understand but try to think of it this way, life is fair in its own way, it doesnt abide by human laws. we humans dont have the ability to fully understand everything because its simply out of the reach of our brains. so for now think of it like this, no matter how unfortunate your life is you can always make it better by working on it and shaping your future day by day and hour by hour. you dont like where your life is going? try your best to change the course of your life step by step. the first step for you to start with is to
not ever get involved in drugs, cigarettes and alcohol. yes you're quite young but i've known people who started smoking at the age of 11. once you establish that you need to improve your life bit by bit and the first step to that is to be a good student in school. yes school could be hell but in the end its necessary for your life. and you're only 13. you have barely begun your life you have a ton of time to be good and have a better life. this is a very complicated matter so if you still didnt understand my point tell me in dms and ill explain in more detail. i hope this helps you think of the bigger picture.
PrestonII
the matter of the afterlife is a very sensitive subject. everyone has their opinion whether it exists or not, it still doesn't give you the right to tell him it doesn't exist and you arent really helping his situation either. maybe advise him something less sensitive and more helpful next time?
BoostButt
i have a very strong opinion on this lol. as a person who literally grew up with zero
real friends i can tell you with certainty that friends are quite overrated. but don't get me wrong, they are essential.
i currently have 3 dear friends who i want to stay in my life forever but i also don't really need them to live, you know what i mean? im not saying you shouldn't have friends lmao, definitely find some good friends but dont make them the center of your life. if that makes sense. but that wasn't your question was it? lol.
i highly recommend you to get comfortable being alone. friends are temporary most of the time. and enjoying loneliness is bliss. a true bliss. again, im not saying dont make friends and be lonely (for anyone reading this) but remember you're your own best friend.
hobbies. this is the true thing that kept me busy and entertained all these years. you may ask how is all related to me not seeing my friends? well, friends are people who you enjoy being with and like having around. its true that a hobby obviously can't replace a friend but what replaces a very good friend really? nothing. for the times that you cant reach/see your friends, keep yourself entertained and busy. i personally like mind games and puzzles so i picked Rubiks cubes and chess as a hobby. and this is where i spend most of my free time or the time where my friends are not around.
my whole point of this is that when friends arent around, don't be sad or bored. life is not all about friends. explore and see other aspects of life. i'd be glad to explain more but i really want to keep these answers as short and as helpful as possible. if you needed any more explanations i'd be happy to explain more in dms.
Lax66Lax
your post is quite related to Boostbutt's post and i'd give similar answers. even though you werent asking anything but thanks for sharing. don't think of being alone as a bad thing, because it's not.
Logeton
Merci, beaucoup. i'll always try to help as much as i can. : )
dantexpress
what a nice post and message. much thanks for posting it.
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