Pour Your Heart Out

Reminds me of The Dark Knight Rises. What's making you feel that way?

 

I I don't really know I just feel that way u know like I try to ask for help but my pride gets in the way you know?

 

Hm. So you end up not asking for help? What kind of help are you talking about, like just asking people questions in general?

 

I guess its just in general I think its because I feel like I should not even tho I should and it would just not help? I cant really explain in well

 

asking for help can be scary, but it always get easier. all ya have to do is work up the courage

 

ok thanks ill try next time

 

I agree with EasternBiker, asking for help can be difficult, especially when we don't know the people we ask very well. I guess if you're saying you're sometimes too prideful and don't want to accept the fact that you need help, try to remember that you're better off knowing something and risking embarrassment rather than not knowing something and risking more embarrassment.

 

ok its just i feel like ill be judged

 

Oh, I see. I think most people don't voice their judgement when someone asks a "dumb question," so maybe try to just focus on getting your answer instead of what other people think. There's a video on YouTube somewhere by Simon Sinek, where he talks about dumb questions. Basically, as dumb as your question might seem or be, you never know if someone else in the room also had the same question, and by asking that question, you just helped that person and possibly even more. Someone's got to ask the question, otherwise nobody would be able to learn.

 

oh huh ill try that and i think if i am helping someone out i might be able to feel better about that

 

I miss my friends and I wish I knew what to do to find people that like me enough to hang around me consistently I feel like I don’t have anyone to celebrate things with I feel like there’s no one to tell about what makes me happy and it just makes every excited moment into this realization that leaves me so lonely