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Pour Your Heart Out

Discussion in 'Anything and Everything not Free Rider' started by Madara, Oct 15, 2020.

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  1. a_drain

    a_drain Well-Known Member Official Author

    Reminds me of The Dark Knight Rises. What's making you feel that way?

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  2. ruetus

    ruetus Active Member Official Author

    I I don't really know I just feel that way u know like I try to ask for help but my pride gets in the way you know?
     
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  3. a_drain

    a_drain Well-Known Member Official Author

    Hm. So you end up not asking for help? What kind of help are you talking about, like just asking people questions in general?
     
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  4. ruetus

    ruetus Active Member Official Author

    I guess its just in general I think its because I feel like I should not even tho I should and it would just not help? I cant really explain in well
     
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  5. EasternBiker

    EasternBiker Well-Known Member Official Author

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    asking for help can be scary, but it always get easier. :) all ya have to do is work up the courage
     
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  6. ruetus

    ruetus Active Member Official Author

    ok thanks :D ill try next time
     
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  7. a_drain

    a_drain Well-Known Member Official Author

    I agree with EasternBiker, asking for help can be difficult, especially when we don't know the people we ask very well. I guess if you're saying you're sometimes too prideful and don't want to accept the fact that you need help, try to remember that you're better off knowing something and risking embarrassment rather than not knowing something and risking more embarrassment.
     
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  8. ruetus

    ruetus Active Member Official Author

    ok its just i feel like ill be judged
     
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  9. a_drain

    a_drain Well-Known Member Official Author

    Oh, I see. I think most people don't voice their judgement when someone asks a "dumb question," so maybe try to just focus on getting your answer instead of what other people think. There's a video on YouTube somewhere by Simon Sinek, where he talks about dumb questions. Basically, as dumb as your question might seem or be, you never know if someone else in the room also had the same question, and by asking that question, you just helped that person and possibly even more. Someone's got to ask the question, otherwise nobody would be able to learn.
     
  10. ruetus

    ruetus Active Member Official Author

    oh huh ill try that and i think if i am helping someone out i might be able to feel better about that
     

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