Pour Your Heart Out

The only thing I disagree with that is I think there is a very clear difference between hope and false expectations. Holding hope isn’t inherently bad unless you’re holding it to the flame of unrealistic or false expectations. I think everyone needs goals and aspirations they must work towards, and I think a lot of that stems from hope. I am a very realistic, some might call pessimistic person, at times, but I also think that hope, when used correctly, is important and powerful.

don’t mean to detract from zachypacso or endie I thought both of your messages were good and important.

hopefully you guys get what I’m saying

 

my brother just got a Gf. I'm close friends with his gfs sister. I had a crush which my friends helped me get to know better. but the more I get to know my crush the more I start to like my brother's gf's sister . I feel like I'm trying to distract myself from her by focusing on my crush. idk what to do

 

I'm only 14 too

 

In the discord you were 13 a moment ago

 

well 14 in 9 days

 

depends on the age difference. if you two are close to the same age, she knows you well, and you know her well, go for it. if you've never really tried to make a move on your crush of course, as well. you're more likely to make it with someone you know than someone you don't. (grain of salt here - I've never been in a relationship myself)

 

early happy birthday from me, cuz i know i'll forget when it's actually time

 

i was planning on giving advice as well, but i didn't since i've never been in a relationship myself
now you're doing it haha
honestly bad idea to ask this in an frhd forum

 

no bro: i think i like my brother's gf's sister, who is prbly my best friend rn. so this other girl really likes me and i used to really like her, and i feel like im using her to distract me from my brother's gf's sister

 

personally wouldnt ask for advice here, since for the most part all of us are probably single

i never had to deal with situations like this, but i'd follow with your best friend who you hold more dear.

 

Hey guys, er, I've been thinking of this for awhile but, I have come to my conclusion, most of you probably don't care but: I will kill myself,

yeah shocker.

This isn't some joke so, I guess this is bye. Sorry for not being online to much 'round here.

 

you will be missed by your friends and family. please sit for 2 hours and think about this decision.
but also out of all places why announce it here

 

I don't really have any place to go, my dad is dead and my mom doesn't care or listen, so I just felt I wanted to post it here.

 

have you brought this up with your mum? if she doesn't gaf that her child is on the brink of suicide she's actually a c.unt, she shouldnt be raising kids in her household. have you thought of calling your countries child safety services? depending on where youre from they would take this seriously and probably find you a better home IDK. you deserve to live with someone that actually takes children seriously

 

You'd be surprised how much a random stranger cares about your life.
There's good out there mate, you just haven't experienced it yet. And the fight's worth fighting even when you have no fight left. Even when there's no one there for you. The relationship and strength you build within yourself day by day is the strongest bond you could ever create.
You would see that miracles aren't only in fairy tales and faith is real once found.
Then maybe you can help see another life through.
Stay in here man

 

rare easternbiker life advice???

 

thanks biker

 

988 my friend. killing yourself is never right

 

I want to keep talking to her but i cant keep talking to her, bc it hurts. It hurts to talk to her knowing i cant have her. And she keeps talking abt her relationship and i cant take it anymore. I wanna cry

 

suicide is no joke. And it's morally incorrect imo (I'm Catholic)
I myself had been suicidal, i always thought of using a paring knife to slit my wrist or neck, but in the end, we don't want to depart from this unfair world because there is something we're attached to. This is our "bridge" between life and death. Dying at your own hand is more dishonourable than if you died for something or someone else's sake.
I remember i went to a retreat and i met a girl a year older than me who lost her dad some months before the retreat, and she still stood strong. I felt guilt, even though it wasn't my fault, but all us guys and girls at the retreat cried together and with it all negative thoughts seep down with our tears.

dont give up on life, you never know if a tiny happenstance or coincidence ends up turning your thoughts on its head. I certainly found my bridge. You can too. Only ever think about death when you meet its event horizon, and die without feeling that you disconnected your attachments yourself. BE YOURSELF.

please come back
we dont want you to become some number in the global count of suicides in the world