Pour Your Heart Out

Praying to God that the cancer can be removed from my uncle <3

 

So I don't know if many of you know but I came out as gay (I said this a couple months ago on here) Recently I've been thinking changing up my look like getting my nails painted and stuff. I already got my ears pierced 2 months ago. I'm nervous because some guys in my crew at work are kinda homophobic : ( . I don't know what they'll say if I come in to work with my nails painted because someone on my crew can be judgy because I opened the door for a guy and he said "What do you have pep in your step and opening doors for guys now". I can't help on who I am so I'll probably just risk it and see what happens

 

Ngl, as someone who is blue collar, your going to get ****** with a lot prob

 

So my uncle has been lymphoma and he'll be having surgery on Dec 3. So I'm hoping everything goes well

(It changed)

 

My uncle just went in surgery

 

My best friends dad cheated on his mom and they are getting divorced, it’s gotten pretty ugly. Anyone got any ideas on what I can do to cheer him up? he acts like it’s nothing but he’s been showing up high to class more often recently and I feel like he’s lying.

 

whenever my friends are sad/mad i js give them space, then after a while they usually come up to me and open up

 

The most important thing you can do in life is lead it with love and try to connect to people through that. Holding genuine care and doing things he’s interested in/things that make him feel comfortable and/or feel safe are important. Be there for him without saying it and without asking. And maybe he is okay and maybe he isn’t but it shouldn’t matter. You should always try to be there for others and advocate for people


Just try the best you can that is all you can do

 

Thanks bro I will, also that shts poetry

 

im starting to resent everyone i want to fcking die and see if it matters

 

What's making you resent everyone?

 

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So my year is ending terribly and it might lead me to deleting my socials and leaving here for a while or forever. My cousin's have been distancing themselves from my aunt and uncle and me because my cousin's mom thinks my aunt talks sht about her when she doesn't. My cousin always has a party on December 31 because his birthday is on Jan 1st but we were never invited today and I know they are having a party because his sisters bf posted a story about it but we were never invited and we've always been going to the parties. I've noticed they've been acting differently and I watched their dogs for 2 weeks and all I got was a thank you and nothing else... It's messing with my mental health and it's more than just my cousin's... It's my supervisor at work and stuff... I just can't take this sht anymore... 2026 will be drama free...I'm not dealing with any sht...if people in my family start sht I'm just gonna block them and never talk to them...so this might be goodbye forever but I know no one cares about me leaving because I'm hated...so cya

 

nah bro I care

 

if you follow me then this my PFP until March 11

(Btw if 65 or 67 people follow me that's the goal)

 

Ngl im not somebody who likes to say much as I really haven’t gone through much in my life, but I felt like I might say something bc as I’ve struggled with coming to terms with what mental health really means. I’ve grown up denying it and for the most part just letting time get rid of sadness which worked ig. But now I’m in yr 12 which might I say is freaking scary because I love where I’m at right now. So I thought I might reach out to a community that I’ve been around for over 7 years now. I love my friends and my life is great but im so scared about making the wrong decision as to my career and like moving out and stuff. I don’t wanna say too much but I’m keen to hear what some of u (older lads especially) think abt this. Doesn’t have to directly relate to me bc i realize that I might not be the only one at this stage in life. Mb if I look like a clown opening up but at the same time you can **** bc ts is new to me haha no seriously though any advice lads?

 

In this day and age, living with your parents for as long as possible is completely normal, as buying a place is harder than ever. Once you finish school, have an idea of a career path and make a plan on how you will get there, that may be just gaining experience in a part-time job and slowly working up over time, doing a degree, an apprenticeship etc. It doesn't have to be crystal clear now (like the most specific job), but try to stick with a field or something that offers different avenues.

Once you graduate high school, you want to be actively working towards a future you will be happy in and perhaps earn good money. If you aren't going to university, your first bet will be getting a job (if you don't have one). Find a hobby, something you will do every week. This may be a sport, recreation, it helps stimulate the mind and helps reset your body whilst still being in a sense of familiarity. Don't cut off gaming, but definitely reduce how long you play daily. There is time better spent elsewhere and you don't want to fall into a bad routine or addiction, like many other things. Keep life in check and fresh, healthy routine and habits. You decide what that is.

Hold onto your current friends and make new ones depending on the environments you are in. Trust me, social life is important; being lonely is a detriment. Work on qualifications while working or finding a job like your driver's license, first aid etc. They open up opportunities and give you more freedom, in the short and long run.

 

Cheers bro. Im considering either doing ADFA or more likely moving to perth and living with some of my relatives while I work on a carpentry apprenticeship.i hate the idea of uni bc you pay for a lot and gain so little, and I think hex debt is a terrible thing for the youth haha. You’re right about gaming, I see myself slowly losing that even now though I will never give it up. In terms of qualifications im on track with my Ls and I’ve got a WWVP qualification but Im working on getting qualifications more aimed toward a trade like carpentry. I don’t got much money in the bank rn I used to be working two jobs two yrs ago but I had to lock in for ‘college’ for Americans, ‘high school’. It doesn’t really worry me but I’m a big car guy so getting a car, legit any car that I can work on and has good fuel eco would be dope. Thanks for taking the time to respond, I’ll keep this in mind for sure.

 

I just got banned on discord for a day so now I'm yapping on forums.
It's related to this: https://discord.com/channels/495734554208894976/611242707385581621/1466386388583841894
I got it the quiz from a different server, someone sent it there, so I jokingly said "I think ill get hitler". But the guy who sent it was glorifying some of the most horrible people in existence, so I got mad and started to report his ****. But I guess he got salty and reported mine too. So now we're both banned. Luckily only for one day.