Sltg28
people come up with different answers to those questions. people have different faiths and beliefs. i can't exactly answer you because i would be saying my faiths and beliefs and they are probably much much more different than yours. but i have found my answers at the age of 18. which is neither early nor late. there is no particular age for figuring out mysterious questions. the questions you asked are very good but believe me that you have to answer them yourself. asking other people's opinions is a good eye-opener but in the end, only you can answer that for yourself. and you can't rush it. you can't just force your brain to find the solutions to all those things. may i quote a Bebe Rexha song here " Woooh, it's just me, myself and I, Solo ride until I die, 'Cause I got me for life (got me for life, yeah), Woooh, I don't need a hand to hold, Even when the night is cold, I got that fire in my soul"
why am i quoting this? well, because it is 100% true and you need to understand and apply it as soon as you can. you will have your back all your life, and your questions and answers are all made by yourself. yes someone might help you but eventually, only you can answer yourself. don't let these questions drain you. as silly as it sounds, you just have to do it. these are questions everyone has, how do they deal with them though? they deal with it logically and in a healthy way. they go on to their life doing whatever they have to do and when they have time to think and try to make sense of things, then they do it. if you let those thoughts just control you and drain you and make you just hate everything then my friend you are losing. you are losing at life. What's good here is how obvious and simple the answer is. be stronger than the questions. people underestimate questions a lot. you just need to take it to its place. I'm not calling you a loser here my friend, no, I'm just telling you that you let the questions control you. which is normal, we are humans and this is how we learn. by making mistakes. learn from them, my friend. i hope this helped you somehow. : )
Slayerzzz
that is a pretty good question and quote from dax's song (book of revelations). i personally believe in God and his power. that's why day by day i try to be the best person i can be and help as many people with me as i can. yes of course i make mistakes, which doesn't stop me from trying to be better. instead of asking "what if" go search for God and read the books he blessed us with. see if the book is truly his words, see if the message is true and sincere. Search for God and find your answer. if you have a doubt, then go search for the answer. its really simple. don't stand still with questions and not looking for no answers. go and look, get the answers, and ask more questions. seek the truth.
ItsYaBoiAndy
its okay. as long as you know that suicide or self-harm is never the answer. then sometimes these thoughts come and go. we cant always be happy. and we definitely shouldn't always be sad. but we need to feel some sadness to appreciate happiness. we need some dark thoughts to know what good thoughts are. if you just remember that its okay and find the things that help you in these situations. you will be fine. stay strong and wait for the good days on the way. : )
Razerjunior
you want my help but you didn't say why. if you really want my help then please explain your situation well in one post so that i could assist you.
Click to expand...
