Pour Your Heart Out

nah, you'll just be dead, but that tough

 

huh

 

oh

nevermind

 

Just so you know, this thread is meant to be for people who have actual problems in their life. I can't say for sure, but that story doesn't exactly strike me as believable. If it is true, then I apologize.

 

yea its true people just don't make stuff like that up but yea thats how ****** up my life is and thats only part of u don't know the **** ive been through its so ****** up people can't even belive it

 

Madara Hello I want to know what I should do, I haven't seen my irl friends in over 6 months.

 

Not depressed just sad at the moment. I haven't hung out with my friends since Halloween, my twin is still good friends with them and they play rocket league together while I sit in my room playing Minecraft alone. The world started with all of us and we used to play daily, but now it is just me. I haven't talked to them since October as I said, like a real conversation. Realized I might not be on my lacrosse team I have played on since Kindergarten and that some kids would be happy I was gone. Wow just typing this made me happy, I remembered some of my friends on my team cared about me and have asked me to hang out often. Thanks for this, I am happy now.

 

I suggest texting them and asking if they want to hangout, or is it because of lockdown?

 

yo madara excuse me if this is poorly worded but i just wanna say real quick thanks tons for making this thread, it seems that i and a lot of other people are thankful for its existence, as im sure despite how unpopular the frhd forum is, its still always a good thing to have a space where we can just publicly vent about our problems online. im sure i and many other people will agree when i tell you to keep up the good work

 

[redacted cuz further cringe]

 

I will play mine craft with you

 

When my dad gives my Xbox back

 

lol i don't have xbox but i get ps4 for christmas

 

Cool

 

first of all sorry for the late response. i had a ton of assignments and 2 seminars this past week.
MaDmAn63
the confusion about your story is that it includes a lot of unnecessary information and its not very believable but i will just consider it true because there's definitely a huge chance that its true. and i didnt make this thread to doubt people's stories.
alot of teenagers (including me a few years ago) have this issue of not having a goal or not knowing why they live and they are extremely vulnerable. we as humans need an objective to live for, a belief to stand by and strive for. you sir have had an unfortunate life. but quite rewarding. its complicated for you i understand but try to think of it this way, life is fair in its own way, it doesnt abide by human laws. we humans dont have the ability to fully understand everything because its simply out of the reach of our brains. so for now think of it like this, no matter how unfortunate your life is you can always make it better by working on it and shaping your future day by day and hour by hour. you dont like where your life is going? try your best to change the course of your life step by step. the first step for you to start with is to not ever get involved in drugs, cigarettes and alcohol. yes you're quite young but i've known people who started smoking at the age of 11. once you establish that you need to improve your life bit by bit and the first step to that is to be a good student in school. yes school could be hell but in the end its necessary for your life. and you're only 13. you have barely begun your life you have a ton of time to be good and have a better life. this is a very complicated matter so if you still didnt understand my point tell me in dms and ill explain in more detail. i hope this helps you think of the bigger picture.

PrestonII
the matter of the afterlife is a very sensitive subject. everyone has their opinion whether it exists or not, it still doesn't give you the right to tell him it doesn't exist and you arent really helping his situation either. maybe advise him something less sensitive and more helpful next time?

BoostButt
i have a very strong opinion on this lol. as a person who literally grew up with zero real friends i can tell you with certainty that friends are quite overrated. but don't get me wrong, they are essential.
i currently have 3 dear friends who i want to stay in my life forever but i also don't really need them to live, you know what i mean? im not saying you shouldn't have friends lmao, definitely find some good friends but dont make them the center of your life. if that makes sense. but that wasn't your question was it? lol.
i highly recommend you to get comfortable being alone. friends are temporary most of the time. and enjoying loneliness is bliss. a true bliss. again, im not saying dont make friends and be lonely (for anyone reading this) but remember you're your own best friend.
hobbies. this is the true thing that kept me busy and entertained all these years. you may ask how is all related to me not seeing my friends? well, friends are people who you enjoy being with and like having around. its true that a hobby obviously can't replace a friend but what replaces a very good friend really? nothing. for the times that you cant reach/see your friends, keep yourself entertained and busy. i personally like mind games and puzzles so i picked Rubiks cubes and chess as a hobby. and this is where i spend most of my free time or the time where my friends are not around.
my whole point of this is that when friends arent around, don't be sad or bored. life is not all about friends. explore and see other aspects of life. i'd be glad to explain more but i really want to keep these answers as short and as helpful as possible. if you needed any more explanations i'd be happy to explain more in dms.

Lax66Lax
your post is quite related to Boostbutt's post and i'd give similar answers. even though you werent asking anything but thanks for sharing. don't think of being alone as a bad thing, because it's not.

Logeton
Merci, beaucoup. i'll always try to help as much as i can. : )

dantexpress
what a nice post and message. much thanks for posting it.

 

your right, I'm sorry

 

thanks that actually helped a lot, my only real hobbies are playing this game, mh4u playing the piano once in a while (helps with spacebarring a ton) and martial arts and doing calculus

 

I don't know if people will except me for who I am, and how I'm different. I want to tell people things but I'm afraid of what they would say or think. How would I even tell my parents without them thinking I'm a disgrace? Or what if they say I can't live with them? What should I do?

 

OK Girl this what ya do: You be like im different and you deal with it because your family and if you love me you would know that it doesn't matter how im different you guuys should love me the way i am

 

i got you lady