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Sexuality / Gender / Crushes

Discussion in 'Anything and Everything not Free Rider' started by CityShep, May 3, 2015.

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  1. Elibloodthirst

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    If it's way ott i'll just link you it in a pm.
     
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  2. CityShep

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    Forlorn333 I actually don't think I ever saw this. This is an interesting question and I don't think I've ever really thought about it. I'll answer it as best as I can. I do believe it definitely raises the possibility of it, and for a few reasons.

    One, because I like both males and females romantically (bi-romantic asexual), I'd say it raises the chances - because if I end up with someone of the same sex (which is 50-50) they're obviously accepting because they like someone of the same sex and can appreciate better that sexuality is complicated (at least they'd relate to that a little better than a straight person would). Also because I don't enjoy sex with either boys or girls, I'm less likely to please my partner unless they are asexual themselves. Now this obviously works both ways, but someone who is gay themselves would likely better understand my situation and may cut me more slack than someone who doesn't know what it's like to feel left out.

    Two, because sex is often portrayed as male - female and I don't enjoy it, it's definitely more queer and unusual and may land me with a queer partner as well.

    And lastly because although I tend to attract to both sexes equally, men seem to have an easier time accepting my asexuality than woman. I feel like it's the same for women accepting asexuality when it's told by a woman, it's just that many partners may take it as an insult because 'I don't want to have sex with you' is involved. When it's a guy on guy conversation, it's easier to explan without sounding like it's an excuse for not wanting sex with them. I also simply find that women's bodies are oversexualized and described by 'sexy, hot, gorgeous, pretty' while men's bodies are more romaticized and seem to be described more by 'handsome, good-looking, dreamy.' Since I like romance more than sex I'd be more comfortable in public with a guy than a girl.
     
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  3. Minus

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    inb4 stig deletes this for adult content
     
  4. CityShep

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    It's not graphic and it's talking about our sexuality / love life, so if he does he'd be hypocritical in doing so.
     
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  5. veldorso

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    that is true, so there is no reson for deleation
     
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  6. Skeeny

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    Lmao... "last edited by a moderator" I wonder who that was... Stig ;)
     
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  7. Forlorn333

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    [​IMG]Met a lovely girl today who drove out quite a ways to meet me. Super sweet and competes at the collegiate level in hammer throwing. Very cool chick. Relationship possibility
     
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  8. Minus

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    more evidence of abuse!!!11!!1! ban!1!!!!!1!
     
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  9. veldorso

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    aww, good luck;):):thumbsup:
     
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  10. veldorso

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    dont be a d¡[|< dude, if you dont like this thread, then stay out of it
     
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  11. Skeeny

    Skeeny Well-Known Member Official Author

    Sawyer.... wow. This thread does mean a lot to some people. If you don't like it... then don't read it tbh! Our world will not be sad because of one thread on a game forum.
    Just don't read it if you don't want to be involved in this (quite informative) chat :cool:


    If you're not mature enough to read this then don't. Pls
     
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  12. Forlorn333

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    Thank you!
     
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  13. Skeeny

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    Best of luck from me too, but I know you won't need it ;) I need her hair btw... :cry:
     
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  14. Forlorn333

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    Hahaha. Yes, her hair is gorgeous!
     
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  15. CityShep

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    You two are adorable, hope this works out!
     
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  16. mrjesusfreak

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    the ironic thing is, im dating a tall distance swimmer and im short and dont know how to swim...
     
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  17. CityShep

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    me_irl
     
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  18. Skeeny

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    There are 666 discussions in this forum section!!!!!!! :eek: lol
     
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  19. armator

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    Aaaand it was my thread
     
  20. codrey

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    armator satanic goat confirmed
     
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