Pour Your Heart Out

WATCH THE INAUGURATION DAY

 

ok this took a very long time. sorry everyone i've had exams for the past month. i still have a few left. but anyways.

adversitas
you said you don't have friends too many times lol. you do have friends. here in the community. we're willing to help in any way we can. but i think you mean people in real life to be with you or hang out with you and so on. other than the fact that not everyone has friends and that's totally normal. you can find friends in the workplace or school or college or places you usually go to. if you don't have friends it doesn't mean you will never have any. you have to stay patient. when the right moment comes friends will appear. you have to be cool with staying alone first tho. in the most needed time you're the only person you got. solitude is gold. appreciate it and then friends won't be that important to you. they still are great to have but don't rush it. they will appear.

Razerjunior
you dont need *smartness*. you need to be mature and know what is ok and what is not. and that happens over time. you have to make mistakes and learn from them. saying i need *smartness* is not a very wise decision. you need to think before doing/saying anything. that's how you learn. also, what dantexpress told you is 100% correct. a lot to learn from his post as well.
just because you are depressed that doesn't mean the world is. it doesn't mean you have to be sad all the time and think of bad things. depression is a state that almost everyone has at a point in time. you need to remind yourself that it will go away one day. its a hard thing to do but that's the point of depression in the first place. to make you mentally stronger. you're currently growing as a person. appreciate it and learn from it. this is how you get *smartness* and wisdom. from situations like this.

Sltg28
sorry for your loss. your message was sent 25 days ago. i really hope you are better now. the thoughts you have i hope are cleared now. we do really care about you. many people will care about you if you find the right people. its extremely challenging to go through a hard phase in your life. but staying alive and trying to figure it out is the best thing you can do. the fact that you are sharing these things it means that you are a good person and you seek answers and solutions. you will get through this one day for sure. just stay strong and just tell me if you have any other concerns or other thoughts. i have more help nowadays. as a community, we'll be glad to help you any time.

RAPPERJACK
yea it really sucks. my dad also lost his job last month. it's very hard. but like you said, we can't do anything but stay patient. life goes on and we'll see better days.
update: lol i just saw your message of your dad getting his job back lol. that's awesome bro.

Blank_Guy
im very happy for you! finding love is extremely challenging. im glad that you have found it. as for your parent's divorce, it's very unfortunate. but you have to remember that they also have lives of their own. no matter how bad you feel about their divorce, be sure that they feel double that sadness because they put you through this. but not everyone is meant to stay happily married together. they will find happiness with other partners. its okay. divorce is also a part of life. be happy with the love you have found because it's precious. try to cope with the divorce as well. they are happier separate. be happy for their happiness. : )

we_are_number_one
im not sure if you were joking about the alcohol or not. but alcohol is very bad. no matter how good it makes you feel, it's bad. replacing it with another nerve-calming habit is the best solution for you. and there are many of those.

RubeGoldberger
i absolutely love the positivity and tips and thoughts you bring here. filled with positivity and sometimes solutions. you're helping much more than you think. thanks so much. : )

DiamondMaster2.0
i wanted to write something to you then i saw RubeGoldberger 's post about it. it was extremely detailed and helpful. i would've said the same thing. learn from it my friend. cope with problems because they will keep coming. and focus on the positive sides. its simple. not easy tho.

 

Thanks for the answer, really helpful as always.
So yes im better now, people like DiamondMaster2.0 and rj helped a lot. As i said before, im Christian, so i pray for him a lot. Now im healthier and returned to my normal life. tank u

 

Glad that we could help. I'm glad you're doing better

 

Thx

 

It's so kind of you to talk to us and to make us feel better and to take time off of your day. I'm really grateful

 

Madara You are awesome!!!! 2021 member of the year
lol

 

but for real that a really cool thing you did!

 

I don't know if this will help anyone but here's a poem I wrote:
Regain your composure
Let this all blow over
It will be okay

Regain your life
It will be alright
No matter what happens
You will never be a fright

Regain your spirit
Which will always be high
For no matter what happens
You can always reach for the sky

 

noice

 

I think I like 'You will never lose the fight' better than "You will never be a fright", but that's awesome!

 

Glad to help!

I've learned an awful lot about myself through this thread too. I feel like participating in this thread is a win whether you are helping or asking for help.

 

Thanks, im not the best at writing poems, lol!!

 

<3

 

Bro I am with you I know God loves me and will protect me I hope people can see that he lives in me

 

I wonder what my purpose in life is

 

Being the best Andy you can

 

My hearts just ice so all that would come out is water

 

My heart is made of stone, cold hard stone. So it might take a couple of heartbreaks before the emotions start coming out.

 

Ergo: sledge hammer